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Each of us feel with our sixth sense whether we were desired or not. You can close your eyes and ask yourselves. If you weren’t part of someone’s plans, you will feel the deep pain connected to this inside yourselves. It leaves a mark that affects the rest of your lives. The pain is extremely deep because it’s the very first pain of life that is experienced, but even this can be healed. These people act like children who have not received enough love and hold an overarching grudge towards everyone. They weren’t desired by their parents and feel as if the whole world doesn’t desire them either. They believe that no one will invite them into their game, and that in order to achieve something in this life they need to break through walls and locked doors.

If this is your story, then you have a lot of work to do on yourself. But start at least by accepting that since you’ve already been born, it means that the world called for you and wanted you, and that’s why you’re here. You’ve been sent down from nothing other than the sky itself and that’s why you are unique.

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A baby is not a way to keep a man by your side. There’s no need to keep anyone close to you by force. If someone wants to go, let them go. Let people be as they are.

Since when have we women started to run after anyone?

A woman’s nature is attraction. She just is and everyone comes to her…

If there’s already conflict between partners, a baby won’t resolve that. The conflict is between you two and no one else so resolve it between yourselves. Why tangle a third person into it, especially an innocent child?

If a man isn’t ready to take you as his wife i.e. not ready to take on the responsibility of marriage, can he be ready for the more serious responsibility of being a father? Do you even need such a man? Maybe there’s no point in wasting your energy on those who are not ready to be with you wholly and fully, with full responsibility, depth and totality. It’s better not to even start a relationship with men like that. Don’t get involved because we women easily get drawn into the vortex of relationships, but it’s much harder for us to get out of it.

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A child should only be conceived in love. Then it will be energetic, active and have a twinkle in its eye. Listen to your heart and your intuition; they will lead you to your other half, to the one who will become the father of your children. Believe me, if you meet him, you won’t walk past him; you’ll feel it straight away. Your heart will start racing, shivers will pass through your body and you won’t be able to think about anyone else except for him. You will recognize him… if you meet, of course. How?

Everything will be very simple. You won’t have any doubts. Your heart will know that he’s the one.

When I met Jonny I just forgot about everyone and everything. I was ready to go to the ends of the Earth with him. I would reply “yes” to every “yes” from him and vice versa. I was ready to marry him and have a child with him that very day. I’d never experienced anything like it in my life rich with experiences. I didn’t feel a trace of doubt. I saw that this meeting was the Universe’s generous gift to me for all my searching. I almost had to die, go to rock bottom to finally meet him. And it happened.

When doubts, arguments and criticisms appear, when you start to weigh up the pluses and minuses in a man, that’s not love anymore. Creating a child is a huge responsibility. But you need to go there through the Heart, not with mercantile thoughts about how much he earns, his IQ, connections, relatives… Listen to your heart. What does it feel? Be honest with yourselves.