Also, such a request for the first time can sound for the first time in inopportune days for women. After all, you can try and another way, the partner will say, meaning exactly his desire to get pleasure. Trustfully suggesting, he can show with a look, if you do not understand anything at all.
There is a type of man, artistically talking about porn, with a specific purpose – he wants to repeat the same thing. Blowjobs are no exception here. Most likely, if a partner is showing or talking about a scene from blowjob porn, he wants the same thing. Unless he says out loud something condemning it, of course.
In very special cases, the man takes the initiative in his own hands, unceremoniously touching your organ with his tongue, stimulating the clitoris. This usually shows favor, and deep trust, and gratitude (sometimes – and affection). And after his, so to speak, party, unobtrusively invites to return attention.
Careful trick is often manifested in the fact that the man gives you time to get dressed and at the moment when you lean or sit, approaches you so that your face is at the same level with his thighs. At the same time, he can caress you affectionately, run his hand through your hair, and even shake it a little, while looking at you with quite an expressive look.
Well, and another little trick is some contagious disease like acute respiratory infections, when it is highly undesirable to contact mouths. He may quite seriously ask how you would feel about sex that excludes face contact. In a sense, it's not only a hint, but also a great way to help each other.
What is useful blowjob?
Of course, most men love it when they get a blowjob – so they get both physiological and psychological discharge. But what do we get out of it, except for his happy face and his own pleasure from a perfectly done job?
As it turns out, the blowjob has a huge number of obvious most unfavorable consequences for the fair sex. And there are even more of them than there are for men. So we, it turns out, blowjob is even more important and useful.
Well, see for yourself.
Psychological benefits
Is giving a blowjob useful from an emotional point of view? Of course! The higher your sexual skills in all kinds of sex, the less likely your man is to go “left”. From such a great lover man will not go anywhere, and understanding this gives you confidence.
Try to remember at least a few cases, heard from friends or read somewhere in magazines, when a man went to another woman because it was interesting to talk to her or she cooked delicious borscht.
In 90% of cases, men leave because of dissatisfaction in their sex life, and the variety and quality of blowjob techniques simply will not allow to get into your bed boredom and frustration.
The main benefit of a blow job: it allows you to strengthen your relationship
Yes, yes, that's right. A blowjob is not something dirty or immoral. If you love a man truly, you love him completely, without dividing into parts: this is bad and this is good. The penis of the man you love is no worse than his eyes or lips, which many people admire. By caressing your man orally, you show that you not only want to give him pleasure, but you accept and love him completely, which creates a closer and more intimate relationship between you.
So it's good to give your man a blowjob if only because it will make your relationship stronger and more trusting. A passionate evening when you fulfill his erotic fantasies will be a great investment in your emotional intimacy.